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January 21, 2026

When Parenting Changes in an Instant

When a child is injured, parenting can change overnight. A parent reflects on navigating pain, fear, school access, and the systems families depend on.

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Jen Wirt, Coral Care CEO & Founder
Jen Wirt, Coral Care CEO & Founder
A 9 year old girl looking out the window on a snowy day from inside her living room. She has a cast on her leg with signatures from friends and crutches placed to the side. She's reading a book.

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Parenting has a way of convincing us that tomorrow will look mostly like today.

We plan around routines, activities, school schedules, and carpools. We assume a certain level of independence and predictability, even when life feels full.

And then, sometimes, everything changes in a single moment.

Last weekend, my daughter fell while skiing and broke her leg.

One moment, I was navigating ordinary parenting logistics. Packing up the kids' things in the car. Leaving drama club a little early to make a family vacation. Making sure everyone was layered enough to handle a few cold hours skiing. Trying a new sport.

The next, parenting looked completely different.

Overnight, Everything Shifted

Suddenly, I was carrying my 9-year-old up and down the stairs. In and out of the car. Calling doctors. Coordinating with school administrators. Trying to put urgent accommodations in place so she can return to a four-story school building with no elevator access to her classroom.

She’s in pain. This is scary for her. And she’s old enough to fully understand what she’s missing. School routines. Activities she loves. Independence she had just days before.

When a child is injured, it doesn’t just affect their body. It affects their sense of safety, predictability, and control. And as parents, we carry that emotional weight alongside them.

In moments like this, parenting becomes less about routines and more about care navigation—figuring out evaluations, understanding milestones, and trying to make sense of a system that isn’t built to be easy for families.

The Whiplash of Suddenly Needing Support

What struck me most was how quickly my role shifted.

One day, I was managing schedules and logistics. The next, I was calling specialists, navigating insurance, advocating for school accommodations, and trying to emotionally support my child while everything felt uncertain.

I also recognize our privilege. We were able to see an orthopedist within hours. Her leg will heal. She will return to her activities. This is a hard chapter, but it is temporary.

That is not the case for many families.

This experience pulled me back to my daughter’s first years of life, when my days were spent calling doctors, therapists, and insurance companies, trying to figure out how to get her the help she needed. Back then, the uncertainty didn’t resolve in weeks or months. It stretched on.

And that is the daily reality for so many parents navigating developmental care.

When Parenting Becomes System Navigation

Sometimes challenges arrive suddenly, like an injury.
Sometimes they build slowly, through missed developmental milestones or mounting concerns.
Sometimes they persist indefinitely, as developmental delays become clearer over time.

In all of these cases, parents are often left navigating fragmented systems while still caring for their child, managing work, and holding their family together.

It can feel overwhelming. Isolating. Exhausting.

Kids are not the problem. Parents are not failing. The systems meant to support families are often difficult to access, especially when help is needed quickly.

Why Support, Evaluations, and Flexibility Matter

Children heal and grow best when they feel supported, not rushed. Parents function best when they are not carrying everything alone.

Whether a child is recovering from an injury, struggling with regulation, experiencing developmental delays, or showing signs of falling behind on milestones, early and accessible evaluations matter. So does having support through care navigation, instead of being handed a list of phone numbers and left to figure it out alone.

This is the work we care deeply about at Coral Care. Supporting families through moments like these, whether temporary or ongoing, is not just about therapy. It is about helping parents navigate care with clarity and confidence.

Ready for Clarity and Next Steps?

When parenting becomes about navigating care, knowing where to start matters. An evaluation can help clarify what’s going on and what type of support may be helpful, whether concerns stem from an injury, developmental delays, missed milestones, or something that has been building over time.

If you’re located in one of our service areas, Coral Care can support you through care navigation and help schedule an evaluation with a speech, occupational, or physical therapist who meets your child where they are. Search local providers and book online.

If you’re not in one of our current states, you can still gain clarity through our free online developmental screener. The screener helps parents understand whether their child may benefit from an evaluation, what type of specialist to consider, and how to think about next steps with confidence.

Early clarity can make a meaningful difference, whether challenges are temporary or ongoing.

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